Faith · Community · Growth
Honor God. Find Your Covenant Partner.
Dating Disciple connects Christian singles of all ages for real, face-to-face gatherings — where we worship together, hear what God says about dating, and grow in community.
Your Journey
What Brings You Here?
Tell us a little about your heart. These preferences shape who you meet and how we serve you.
What are you looking for?
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"He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."
— Proverbs 18:22
Our Standards
Community Guidelines
Dating Disciple is a covenant-first community. These principles protect the integrity of every gathering and ensure every member is treated with honor.
Faith in Christ Required
Membership is open to practicing Christians who affirm Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. This is not a general dating app — it is a community built on the foundation of biblical faith.
Honor Above All
Every member deserves to be treated with dignity, respect, and Christlike love. Romantic interest must be expressed with grace and integrity — no pressure, no persistence after a "no."
Covenant Mindset Only
This community exists for those pursuing marriage and meaningful discipleship — not casual dating or hookup culture. Come with intention, or don't come at all.
Authentic Profiles Only
Use your real name, real photos, and honest information. Integrity starts before the first conversation. Fake profiles or misrepresentation will result in immediate removal.
No Harassment or Hate
Harassment, manipulation, or any form of pressure is incompatible with Christian character. We hold every member to the standard of treating others as they would want to be treated.
Serve & Encourage
Come to give, not just to receive. Encourage fellow disciples in their faith walk. The best marriages begin with two people who already know how to serve others well.
Violations of these guidelines may result in suspension or permanent removal from the community. By joining, you agree to pursue relationships with the honor, integrity, and covenant mindset that God calls us to.
How It Works
A covenant-minded path to finding your person — God's way.
Build Your Faith Profile
Share your testimony, spiritual values, and what you're believing God for in a future spouse. Integrity starts with honesty about who you are and where you're headed.
Attend a Gathering
Meet other covenant-minded believers at church-hosted events near you. No algorithms, no swiping — just Spirit-led, face-to-face community.
Pursue with Purpose
Connect with intention. Every relationship here is built on shared faith, mutual respect, and a commitment to honor God from the very first conversation.
Connection Formats
Meet as a Single Disciple
Not every connection starts at a large gathering. Dating Disciple offers intimate formats designed for single believers to meet, share, and grow together.
1-on-1 Coffee Chats
A low-pressure, faith-centered conversation over coffee. No agenda, no awkward first dates — just two disciples getting to know each other with God at the center.
- Matched by faith profile & goals
- Suggested local venues provided
- Guided conversation prompts available
- Optional accountability check-in after
Small Group Circles
Intimate gatherings of 4–8 single disciples exploring faith, purpose, and community together. Facilitated discussions rooted in scripture and real life.
- 4–8 members per circle
- Themed topics: singleness, calling, covenant
- Hosted at partner venues & facilities
- Recurring weekly or bi-weekly sessions
"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." — Proverbs 27:17
What Happens at a Gathering
Every gathering is designed to honor God and build the kind of character that makes a great spouse.
Biblical Teaching on Covenant Dating
Hear what Scripture actually says about pursuing a spouse with honor and integrity. Every gathering includes grounded teaching on God's design for relationships — not culture's.
Worship That Sets the Atmosphere
We begin every gathering in worship — because the best relationships are built in the presence of God, not the pressure of performance.
Intentional, Honorable Connection
Meet other singles in a safe, church-hosted environment built on respect and purpose. No casual hookup culture — just real people pursuing real love, God's way.
Upcoming Gatherings
Real people. Real places. Real covenant community.
Morning Prayer & Discipleship
Women's Bible Study Circle
Men's Discipleship Breakfast
New from Dating Disciple
Marriage God's Way
A 6-module biblical course on keeping your covenant marriage strong — communication, spiritual leadership, intimacy, finances, and raising disciples. Built for couples and singles preparing for marriage.
- 24 video lessons · 8–9 hours of content
- Downloadable couples workbook
- One-time payment — lifetime access
- 30-day satisfaction guarantee
Starting at $97 one-time
Biblical Wisdom
Avoid the Pitfalls.
Date with Purpose.
Modern dating culture sets believers up to fail. Scripture offers a better way — one built on truth, patience, and covenant love.
Common Pitfall
Moving too fast emotionally
Intense emotional bonding before commitment — "catching feelings" with no covenant in place.
Guard your heart with wisdom. Proverbs 4:23 says "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Let commitment precede deep emotional investment.
Common Pitfall
Physical intimacy before marriage
Culture normalizes physical relationships early, treating the body as casual rather than sacred.
Flee sexual immorality (1 Cor. 6:18). Honor God with your body. Physical intimacy is a covenant gift — protect it until marriage.
Common Pitfall
Unequally yoked relationships
"Love is love" — overlooking spiritual incompatibility in hopes that one partner will eventually change.
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Cor. 6:14). Shared faith is not optional — it is the foundation of a covenant marriage.
Common Pitfall
Idolizing a relationship
Making a partner your primary source of identity, worth, and fulfillment — placing them above God.
Seek first the kingdom of God (Matt. 6:33). A healthy relationship flows from two whole people already rooted in Christ — not two broken people looking to each other for wholeness.
Common Pitfall
Ignoring character for chemistry
Choosing partners based on attraction and excitement while overlooking integrity, faith, and fruit of the Spirit.
By their fruit you will recognize them (Matt. 7:16). Look for the fruit of the Spirit — love, patience, kindness, self-control — not just chemistry.
Common Pitfall
Dating without accountability
Pursuing relationships in isolation — no mentors, no community, no one speaking truth into the process.
Plans fail for lack of counsel (Prov. 15:22). Invite trusted believers — a pastor, mentor, or small group — to speak into your relationship. Accountability is protection, not control.
"He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord."
— Proverbs 18:22
Start Dating with PurposeDate Like a Christian
Biblical, practical teachings on preparing your heart, choosing wisely, and pursuing love God's way. Free teachings to get you started — full library unlocked with membership.
Becoming Who You're Looking For
Proverbs 31:10 / Proverbs 31:30
Healing Before You Date
Psalm 147:3
What to Actually Look For in a Spouse
1 Corinthians 13:4–7
Unequally Yoked: Why It Matters
2 Corinthians 6:14
Purity, Boundaries & the Body
1 Thessalonians 4:3–5
Courtship vs. Dating: A Biblical Framework
Song of Solomon 2:7
Trusting God's Timing
Ecclesiastes 3:1 / Isaiah 40:31
Having the Hard Conversations Early
Amos 3:3
Roles, Submission & Servant Leadership
Ephesians 5:22–33
Unlock the Full Teaching Library
Disciple and Community Builder members get access to all 9 teachings, downloadable study guides, and new content added monthly.
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Disciples in Every Field
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